Thursday, 17 September 2020

MY FRIENDSHIP HAS AN EXPIRY DATE.

 JUST THINKING:


I love making friends with people but my friendship can have an expiry date. I can be pulled to someone if we have the same value system, mindset, and so on.  But if there is no integrity, the friendship expires.  If the persons curses, it is a "NO, NO" for me. I can't stand anyone who curses whether you are a Christian or not.  Once I notice that cursing comes out easily from your mouth, the friendship expires immediately. I am not a perfect person but I don't want to be corrupted by cursing words. Words are powerful whether it is a blessing or a curse.

The Bible says, "Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks" and also, "out of your belle flows rivers of living waters". For the people who curse easily, I can put it this way: "out of the abundance of your heart, you curse and out of their belle comes rivers of death".

What comes out of one's mouth is a product of what is in the person's heart. Some people carry anger, bitterness, hatred and unforgiveness in their hearts. So, when they speak, death, pollution and defilement comes out naturally. 

Most times, what people say is a reflection of what they have inside. I know that most people cuss once in a while of which some regret and repent of. But if anyone around me cusses at any or every provocation, I run away from that person. What I carry on the inside of me is very precious. So, I won’t allow anyone to contaminate what I have with cursing or swearing. My friendship expires with anyone who curses easily and whom I have spoken with about it and there are no changes.

James 3:10 NLT says, “And so blessing and cursing come pouring out of the same mouth. Surely, my brothers and sisters, this is not right!”

 

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